I don't know who needs to hear this, but trying to juggle a full-time job and a side hustle will absolutely wreck you if you do it wrong.
I spent my first eight months of freelance writing staying up way too late, chugging coffee like it was water, and walking around like a zombie most days. My manager started pulling me aside, asking if everything was okay at home because I kept spacing out during meetings. My girlfriend got tired of me always being "too busy" to do anything fun. And I was constantly stressed about not having enough time for anything.
It was a mess. I was a mess.
The breaking point came when I fell asleep during a client call. Not like I dozed off for a second; I literally fell asleep mid-sentence while talking about a project. That's when I realized I was going about this whole thing completely backwards.
Here's what I figured out: most people fail at side hustles not because they don't have good ideas or skills, but because they try to squeeze work into every spare minute instead of being smart about when and how they work.
Now I make about $1,200 a month from freelancing while still doing my regular job, and I actually have energy left over for other stuff. Not because I'm some productivity guru, but because I stopped trying to work all the time and started working strategically.
If you're currently running on three hours of sleep and wondering how everyone else seems to have their shit figured out, this is for you.
With your schedule organized, please ensure you're focusing on the appropriate tasks. Our complete side hustle guide shows you what to prioritize.
Let's Talk About What Nobody Tells You
First thing—anybody who tells you balancing a day job and side hustle is easy is either lying or doesn't actually do it.
Here's the stuff nobody mentions when they're posting their "hustle harder" motivational bullshit:
You're going to be tired. A lot. Like, bone-deep exhausted some days because you're essentially working two jobs. Some weeks you'll feel like you're doing everything poorly.
Your friends might get annoyed with you. When you start saying no to weekend trips and happy hours because you have deadlines, people take it personally sometimes.
You'll feel guilty about everything. At your day job, you'll think about that client project. Working on your side hustle, you'll worry about that presentation tomorrow. With your family, you'll feel bad about all the work you should be doing.
Progress feels stupidly slow. Because you only have a few hours here and there, everything takes forever. It's frustrating as hell.
You'll want to quit at least five times. Usually around month three, when the initial excitement wears off and you realize this is actually hard work.
But here's the thing that kept me going: once you figure out a system that doesn't make you hate your life, it actually gets pretty manageable. The trick is working with your real life instead of pretending you have unlimited time and energy.

How I Went from Hot Mess to Mostly Functional
My first attempt at time management was laughably bad. I tried to work on my side hustle whenever I had "free time," which meant:
Staying up until 1 or 2 AM writing articles because that's when I finally had quiet time. Working through lunch breaks at my day job, which made afternoons brutal. Spending entire weekends glued to my laptop, then feeling resentful about it. Constantly feeling behind on everything and like I was letting everyone down.
After about six months of this, I was ready to give up. Then my buddy Marcus, who has a successful consulting thing on the side, told me something that changed everything: "Dude, stop trying to find time. Just pick specific times and protect them like your life depends on it."
He showed me his calendar, and it was way more structured than I expected. Specific days for client calls, specific times for deep work, and—this was the part that blew my mind—specific times when work was completely off-limits.
My schedule now:
- Monday/Wednesday/Friday: 6-8 AM freelance work
- Tuesday/Thursday: 7-9 PM freelance work
- Saturday morning: 9 AM-1 PM bigger projects
- Everything else: Off limits for side hustle stuff
That's about 14 hours a week, which is way less than I was trying to work before, but it's consistent. And consistency beats intensity every single time.
The Week That Opened My Eyes
Before you can fix your time management, you need to see where your time actually goes. Most people think they don't have time for anything, but they're spending three hours a day watching TikTok.
Track everything for one week. And I mean everything:
- Work (including commute and random work thoughts)
- Sleep
- Meals and cooking
- TV and streaming
- Social media
- Working out
- Errands and household stuff
- Time with friends and family
Use your phone's screen time tracker or just set random alarms to check what you're doing.
My wake-up call: I thought I was too busy for anything, but I was spending over two hours a day on Instagram and YouTube. That's 14+ hours a week I was basically pissing away on random videos.
Other time sucks I see all the time:
- Endless scrolling (the average person does 2+ hours daily)
- Binge-watching shows (Americans watch 4+ hours of TV daily.)
- Trying to multitask, which makes everything take twice as long
- Driving when you could work remotely
- Meetings that should have been emails
The goal: Find 10-15 hours per week that you're currently wasting and redirect them somewhere useful.
Time Blocking: The Only Thing That Actually Worked
I tried every productivity system out there. There are to-do lists, fancy apps, color-coded calendars, and morning routines. Nothing stuck until I discovered time blocking.
How it works: Instead of having a list of stuff to do "when you have time," you assign specific time slots to specific tasks.
My Monday morning block (6:00-8:00 AM):
- 6:00-7:00: Write first draft of article
- 7:00-7:30: Client emails and admin stuff
- 7:30-8:00: Plan Wednesday's work
Why this works better than everything else:
- Forces you to be realistic about how long things actually take
- Eliminates the constant "what should I work on?" decision
- Creates real boundaries so work doesn't expand into your whole life
- Makes it easier to say no when people want your time
How to start:
- Pick 2-3 specific time blocks per week for side work.
- Assign specific tasks to each block.
- Treat these like doctor's appointments—non-negotiable.
- Turn off all notifications during work time.
- When the block ends, you stop, even if you're not done.
That last part is crucial. If you let work bleed into everything else, you'll burn out fast.
Working With Your Energy, Not Against It
Here's something most productivity advice completely ignores: your brain doesn't work the same all day long.
I'm a morning person. Between 6 and 9 AM, I can write, think strategically, and solve problems. After 9 PM? I'm basically useless for anything that requires brainpower.
I used to force myself to work late at night and produce absolute garbage. Now I use evening blocks for easy stuff like organizing files or responding to simple emails.
Figure out your patterns:
- When do you feel sharp and creative?
- When do you hit that afternoon wall?
- Are you better at detailed work or big-picture thinking in the morning?
- When do you feel like doing mindless tasks?
Match your tasks to your energy:
Energy Level | Best Tasks |
---|---|
High Energy | Creative work, problem-solving, writing, strategy |
Medium Energy | Admin tasks, emails, research, planning |
Low Energy | Organizing, filing, easy repetitive stuff |
My friend Lisa is the complete opposite—she's dead to the world before 10 AM but comes alive around 8 PM. She does all her graphic design work from 8 to 10 PM and uses mornings for easier stuff like posting on social media.
There's no right or wrong pattern. Stop fighting your natural rhythms and start working with them.
Learning to Say No Without Being a Jerk

Once you start making money on the side, everyone suddenly has "quick projects" and "amazing opportunities" for you. Learning to say no without burning bridges is essential.
Stuff I've had to say no to:
- After-work drinks on days when I have writing blocks
- Weekend events that conflict with my Saturday work time
- "Quick" projects that are never actually quick
- Networking events that don't help my specific goals
- Random favors during my designated work hours
How to say no without being a dick:
- "I'd love to help, but I'm not available that night. What about [alternative time]?"
- "That sounds cool, but I'm focused on [specific goal] right now."
- "I'm completely booked until [date]. Want to check back then?"
- "I wish I could, but I've already committed that time to something else."
The key: Be specific about why you're not available, offer alternatives when you can, and don't apologize a million times.
Family and friends: This is the hardest part. People who care about you might not get why you can't always hang out. I've had to have real conversations about my goals and ask for support during busy periods.
Batching: The One Productivity Hack That's Not Total BS
Most productivity tricks are garbage, but batching similar tasks together actually works.
What batching is: Doing similar types of work at the same time instead of jumping between different things.
How I batch my writing:
- Monday: Research and outline articles
- Wednesday: Write first drafts
- Friday: Edit and submit finished pieces
- Saturday: All client communication and business stuff
Why this doesn't suck:
- Your brain doesn't have to switch between different types of thinking.
- You get into a flow state easier.
- Each type of task gets more efficient.
- Less mental energy wasted on deciding what to do next
Other ways to batch:
- Do all your client calls on one day per week.
- Create a month of social media content in one session.
- Please ensure that all administrative tasks, such as invoicing and filing, are completed
- Check email at set times instead of constantly.
The social media trap: Don't create content and then feel like you have to post it manually throughout the week. Use scheduling tools so you're not always thinking about it.
Tools That Help (And Ones That Make Things Worse)
I've tried every productivity app on the planet. Most of them just add more complexity to your life.
Stuff that actually helps:
- Google Calendar: For time blocking. I use different colors for my day job, side work, and personal time.
- Notion: For keeping track of projects and ideas. But don't spend weeks making it perfect.
- Forest app: Blocks websites and apps during work time. It may sound dumb, but it works.
- Basic timer: Sometimes just setting a timer for 45 minutes and working until it goes off is enough.
Stuff that doesn't help:
- While complicated to-do list apps exist, using pen and paper is often sufficient.
- Project management systems that take longer to maintain than to just do the work
- Apps that require daily setup and maintenance
- Anything that has more features than you actually need
My rule: Use the simplest tool that gets the job done. If it takes more than five minutes to learn, it's probably overkill.
Dealing with the Mental Chaos
The hardest part isn't managing your time—it's managing all the thoughts bouncing around in your head about both jobs.
The mental load:You're at your day job thinking about client deadlines. You're working on your side hustle, thinking about that big meeting tomorrow. You're trying to relax and thinking about all the work you should be doing.
What helps:
- Brain dumps: Every Sunday, I write down everything I'm thinking about work-wise. Gets it out of my head.
- Transition routines: I listen to the same playlist when I switch from day job mode to side hustle mode.
- Shutdown ritual: At the end of each work block, I write down what I did and what's next, then close the laptop and walk away.
- Phone boundaries: I turn off work notifications at specific times. Clients can wait until morning.
Sunday planning:I spend 20 minutes every Sunday looking at the week ahead. What's happening at the day job? What are my side hustle priorities? Where might there be conflicts?
This prevents that constant background anxiety of feeling like you're forgetting something important.
When Your Side Hustle Starts Taking Over Your Life
There's a point where your side hustle starts making decent money and you get tempted to work on it all the time. This is dangerous territory.
Red flags:
- Thinking about side work during day job meetings
- Working through lunch breaks regularly
- Canceling plans with friends more than once in a while
- Feeling exhausted most of the time
- Day job performance is starting to slip.
- People commenting that you seem stressed or distracted
I hit this wall around month 10 when I was making about $900 a month from writing. The money felt amazing, so I started taking every project that came my way and working way more than my schedule allowed.
What snapped me out of it:
- My boss asked if I was having problems at home because I seemed checked out.
- My girlfriend said she felt like she never saw me anymore.
- I caught the flu and realized I was exhausting myself.
How to scale without losing your mind:
- Raise your rates instead of working more hours.
- Be picky about projects instead of saying yes to everything.
- Consider enlisting assistance for lower-priority tasks when it is within your budget.</sentence
- Keep your off-limits time sacred.
The goal is building something sustainable, not burning out in a blaze of productivity glory.
Different Side Hustles Need Different Approaches
Service-based stuff (freelancing, consulting):
- Client calls usually happen during business hours.
- Deep work needs big chunks of uninterrupted time.
- Deadlines create natural urgency.
- Best approach: Strict time blocks with clear start/stop times
Selling products (crafts, e-commerce):
- You can batch production during longer work sessions.
- Marketing needs consistent daily attention.
- Inventory and shipping have their rhythms.
- Best approach: Longer weekend blocks for making stuff, short daily blocks for marketing
Content creation (YouTube, blog, podcast):
- Creative work needs high-energy time.
- Publishing schedules create regular deadlines.
- Growth takes time and consistency.
- Best approach: Batch content creation, schedule publishing
My setup: I do freelance writing (service) and sell digital templates (product). Writing gets my high-energy morning blocks. Template creation happens on weekend mornings. Marketing for both gets batched into Saturday afternoons.
A Week That Actually Works
After almost two years of experimenting, here's what my week looks like:
Monday:
- 6:00-8:00 AM: Deep writing work (new articles)
- Lunch: Quick email check, maybe some research
- Evening: Complete focus on day job recovery
Tuesday:
- 7:00-9:00 PM: Client stuff and project planning
- I have no morning work because I need to recover from Monday's early start.
Wednesday:
- 6:00-8:00 AM: Editing and revisions
- Lunch: Content ideas and quick admin
- Evening: Personal time, no work thoughts allowed
Thursday:
- 7:00-9:00 PM: Business stuff (invoices, proposals, organizing)
- Morning: Focus on day job stuff
Friday:
- 6:00-8:00 AM: Wrap up weekly projects, prep for next week
- Rest of day: Day job focus
- Evening: Social time or just vegging out
Saturday:
- 9:00 AM-1:00 PM: Bigger projects, planning, creative work
- Afternoon: Personal stuff or light admin if I feel like it
Sunday:
- No work at all
- 20-minute planning session for the week
- Prep stuff for Monday morning.
Total side work: About 14 hours per week, which feels totally manageable.
When Life Happens
Your perfect schedule will get disrupted. A lot. The key is having a system that bends without breaking.
Busy times at your day job: Scale back side work temporarily. Better to do less consistently than to burn out trying to do everything.
Family stuff: Build flexibility into your routine. I don't schedule side work during holidays or when people visit.
Getting sick: Everything else can wait. I learned this when I tried to keep working with COVID. Recovery took twice as long.
Side hustle busy seasons: If your business has seasonal peaks, plan for them by backing off other stuff during those times.
Mental health rough patches:Some weeks you just need more downtime. That's not failure; that's being human.
The trick is having a default routine that works 80% of the time, with the ability to adjust when life gets weird.
Making Peace with Good Enough
Perfectionism will kill your side hustle faster than anything else.
Things that don't need to be perfect:
- Your first website or Instagram presence
- Initial pricing or client proposals
- Early products or content
- Your scheduling system
Focus on consistent over perfect:
- Better to publish one decent blog post every week than spend three months perfecting one amazing post.
- Better to send good work on time than perfect work delivered late.
- Better to stick with a simple system than to constantly optimize a complicated one.
The 80/20 thing: Most of your results come from a small number of activities. For side hustles, that's usually getting customers and doing good work. Everything else is just details.
My motto: Done is better than perfect, and consistent beats sporadic every time.
Your Next 30 Days
Don't try to change everything at once. Pick 2-3 small changes and build from there:
Week 1: Figure out where your time goes.
- Please track everything for one week.
- Please identify 10-15 hours that could be used more.
- Please select 2-3 consistent times for side work.
Week 2: Start time blocking
- Schedule specific tasks for each work block.
- Turn off notifications during focused time.
- Practice stopping when the time block ends.
Week 3: Energy optimization
- Notice when you feel most/least energetic.
- Match hard tasks to high-energy times.
- Start saying no to one thing per week.
Week 4: Refine and plan
- Adjust what didn't work.
- Plan for next month
- Please identify your most significant remaining challenge.
30-day goal: Have a routine you can actually stick with long-term, not some crazy productivity sprint.
The Long Game
After two years of this, here's what I've learned:
It gets way easier. The first few months suck because you're building new habits. Once routines stick, it feels natural.
Your priorities shift. Things that seemed important before matter less when you have meaningful work to focus on.
You get more efficient. Limited time forces you to focus on what actually matters.
Energy management beats time management. Working with your natural rhythms instead of against them makes everything sustainable.
Boundaries aren't optional. Without clear limits, work expands to fill your entire life.
Small consistent efforts compound. You don't need to work 40-hour weeks on your side hustle to see real progress.
The goal isn't to optimize every minute or become some productivity robot. It's to build systems that let you pursue work you care about while still having a life.
Your homework:
- Track where your time actually goes this week.
- Please select 2-3 consistent time blocks for side work.
- Please identify when you feel most energetic and prioritize that time.
- Practice saying no to one thing that conflicts with your goals.
You don't need perfect time management to build a successful side hustle. You just need systems that are good enough and sustainable enough to stick with.
The people killing it with side hustles aren't superhuman. They just figured out how to work with their real lives instead of against them.
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